Changes to the Photo Memorials

When this website was first created many years ago, I wanted it to be a resource free of advertisements, free of solicitations, something that you could just learn from. I’m not a big fan of money. I woudl love it if our society was based on simple service – we all give what we can in whatever way we can, we all work hard, and everything is free for everyone.

Unfortunately, things don’t work that way. Maybe someday, but not today. Life circumstances changed, and made it necessary for this website to start paying for itself. Plus, kids grow up, finances don’t grow fast enough to keep the pace of what your kids need, you know the drill. And so, we signed up for a couple of affiliate programs. Nothing big, but something to at least help pay the bills.

And at some point I realized, earning money – that is not really a bad thing. We’re all stuck in the same world having to do the same thing – feed our families. And there’s nothing wrong with wanting to help people forget some of their sadness, and be able to make a living while doing it.

I created the Photo Memorial product because I wanted to serve, to give something to those who needed some uplift and remembering, but also give my son the ability to earn a little money towards some things that he wants to do over the coming year. I thought that for sure if we offered something valuable, with a donate button, that those who felt it was valuable and helpful to them would donate. But those who are struggling with finances would at least be able to have something as well.

Well, it hasn’t turned out as well as we’d hoped. It’s been difficult to find the time to create the memorials. And no one has offered a donation for those we’ve created. (This could be because it takes us some time to create them, or because those who order them struggle with their finances….) So, starting tomorrow, we are going to go ahead and charge for them. We will also send a physical print, so it will not be a digital file only that you will need to print yourself. You will receive a print by mail as well. And we claim no copyright – the background image and the poem are both free from copyright, and you provide the individual’s picture, so there’s no need for us to copyright it. You can reproduce it however, wherever you would like.

As much as we hoped that we would not have to do this, to charge a specific amount for the memorials, we don’t have another choice that will help us ensure that we are providing the best product we can for each customer. Each one is a beautiful, unique portrait. Each one is priceless to the family who receives it. We hope you understand the need to move forward in this direction.

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Quotes

When a once painful reminder evokes a gentle laugh, when we recognize the joy of the present in an image from the past, we have arrived at an important moment. Those memories are being transformed, unmistakably, into messages of hope. — Molly Fumia, in Safe Passage

The heart hath its own memory, like the mind. And in it are enshrined
the precious keepsakes, into which is wrought the giver's loving thought.
— H.W. Longfellow

To live in the hearts we leave behind is not to die. — Thomas Campbell

We do not know the true value of our moments until they have undergone the test of memory. — Georges Duhamel

In love longing
I listen to the monk's bell.
I will never forget you
even for an interval
Short as those between the bell notes.
— Izumi Shikibu

While both joy and sorrow are fleeting, and often intertwined, love has the power to overcome both. And love can last forever. — Deb Fulton, in "The Power of Love" from A Second Chicken Soup for the Woman's Soul

Life is eternal; and love is immortal; and death is only a horizon; and a horizon is nothing save the limit of our sight. — Rossiter W. Raymond

Give sorrow words;
the grief that does not speak
Whispers the o'er-fraught heart
and bids it break.
— William Shakespeare, in Macbeth, Act IV, Scene III

Remembering the past makes hoping for the future possible. — Alan D. Wolfelt, Ph.D., Center for Loss

Grieve not, nor speak of me with tears, but laugh and talk of me as if I were beside you there. — Isla Paschal Richardson

Photographs are precious memories . . . the visual evidence of place and time and relationships . . . ritual talismans for the treasure chest of the heart. — Robert Fulghum, in From Beginning to End

Let the joy of your loved one's life begin to take the place of the hurt and anger of the death. — Darcie D. Sims, Grief Inc.

Memory is a passion no less powerful or pervasive than love. What does it mean to remember? It is to live in more than one world, to prevent the past from fading and to call upon the future to illuminate it. — Elie Wiesel, in All Rivers Run to the Sea: Memoirs

Perhaps they are not stars in the sky, but rather openings where our loved ones shine down to let us know they are happy. — Eskimo Legend

What the heart has once known, it shall never forget. — Author unknown

In one of the stars, I shall be living.
In one of them, I shall be laughing.
And so it will be as if all the stars were laughing when you look at the sky at night.
— Antoine de Saint-Exupery, from The Little Prince

He who has gone, so we but cherish his memory, abides with us, more potent, nay, more present than the living man. — Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

Recall as often as you wish; a happy memory never wears out. — Libbie Fudim

If I am to wear this mourning cloak, let it be made of the fabric of love, woven by the fine thread of memory. — Molly Fumia, in Safe Passage

I have only slipped away into the next room, I am I and you are you. Whatever we were to each other, that we still are. Call me by my old familiar name. Speak to me in the easy way which you always used.... Play, smile, think of me.... All is well. — Henry Scott Holland

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