Memories Shared

Green Bay grief, broken hearts trump professional skills

This is a touching article about grieving, and it’s impact on our entire lives, no matter who we are.

http://www.griefrecoverymethod.com/2012/01/green-bay-grief-broken-hearts-trump-professional-skills/

Are you missing a firefighter?

January 10th was Volunteer Firefighter Day. Remembered.com offered free memorials to firefighters on that day, and the website is still active, so I believe this would still work. Instructions on how to create your free memorial are here:

http://remembered.com/firefighters

 

 

 

 

Pearl Harbor – like 9/11, a day to remember

Thank you to all our service men and women who gave their all so we could be free. It’s great that these men’s families could do this for them:

http://www.foxnews.com/us/2011/12/07/pearl-harbor-survivors-return-to-ships-after-death/

Cancer Sucks

What would you say in a letter to your loved one? How do you talk to them when you wish they could still hear? See one woman’s touching letter to her mother-in-law here:

Another letter to Linda

Special nature of burial sites

Here’s an interesting article about a visit to a graveyard to take some photos for FindaGrave.com, and the insight gained by someone who stumbled upon the memorial for a little boy who left this life too early. A beautiful reminder that our memories can help others too.

http://www.deseretnews.com/article/705393262/Coopers-grave-a-reminder-of-the-special-nature-of-burial-sites.html

What have you done at the gravesite to help pay tribute to your loved one?

A new site

A new November, a new website! This website redesign has been many years in coming. All the old information should still be included, but the text of the pages has been edited and hopefully improved in many ways. Hopefully all will find this new website easier to navigate.

One item of note – as my family grows and finances get tighter, and I hope to someday be able to stay at home with my kids, this website is going to become ad supported. I thought for a very long time that that would really take away from the message of the site. I realized finally that there are some really great companies out there that provide nice services and products for people grieving a loss, and everyone should be aware of them. So I will be adding advertisements to these pages in the coming weeks. I hope it won’t detract from the message and will instead provide value to those who are looking for some help in their time of loss.

Beautiful Heartbreak – new song by Hilary Weeks

Sometimes it helps to know that there are others who have gone through hurt the same as you and have come through the other side – maybe changed, but still come through it. Here is a beautiful song that you’ll want to listen to – but grab a few tissues before listening….

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xyX-I-um5Kk

What a nice tribute…

Read about Remembering Val, using the Memory Book service Picaboo to pay tribute to a dear friend and loved one:

http://blog.picaboo.com/2011/10/remembering-val/

Tributes to an icon…

Steve Jobs passed away this week. The world has truly lost a great visionary. See what those close to him, as well as those who were inspired by him, said and did to pay tribute to him. These are some amazing tributes for someone who had the vision to change the world.

http://www.macrumors.com/2011/10/05/steve-jobs-has-passed-away/

Quotes

Perhaps they are not stars in the sky, but rather openings where our loved ones shine down to let us know they are happy. — Eskimo Legend

In one of the stars, I shall be living.
In one of them, I shall be laughing.
And so it will be as if all the stars were laughing when you look at the sky at night.
— Antoine de Saint-Exupery, from The Little Prince

I have only slipped away into the next room, I am I and you are you. Whatever we were to each other, that we still are. Call me by my old familiar name. Speak to me in the easy way which you always used.... Play, smile, think of me.... All is well. — Henry Scott Holland

Recall as often as you wish; a happy memory never wears out. — Libbie Fudim

The heart hath its own memory, like the mind. And in it are enshrined
the precious keepsakes, into which is wrought the giver's loving thought.
— H.W. Longfellow

What the heart has once known, it shall never forget. — Author unknown

To live in the hearts we leave behind is not to die. — Thomas Campbell

Memory is a passion no less powerful or pervasive than love. What does it mean to remember? It is to live in more than one world, to prevent the past from fading and to call upon the future to illuminate it. — Elie Wiesel, in All Rivers Run to the Sea: Memoirs

Life is eternal; and love is immortal; and death is only a horizon; and a horizon is nothing save the limit of our sight. — Rossiter W. Raymond

While both joy and sorrow are fleeting, and often intertwined, love has the power to overcome both. And love can last forever. — Deb Fulton, in "The Power of Love" from A Second Chicken Soup for the Woman's Soul

We do not know the true value of our moments until they have undergone the test of memory. — Georges Duhamel

Let the joy of your loved one's life begin to take the place of the hurt and anger of the death. — Darcie D. Sims, Grief Inc.

When a once painful reminder evokes a gentle laugh, when we recognize the joy of the present in an image from the past, we have arrived at an important moment. Those memories are being transformed, unmistakably, into messages of hope. — Molly Fumia, in Safe Passage

He who has gone, so we but cherish his memory, abides with us, more potent, nay, more present than the living man. — Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

If I am to wear this mourning cloak, let it be made of the fabric of love, woven by the fine thread of memory. — Molly Fumia, in Safe Passage

In love longing
I listen to the monk's bell.
I will never forget you
even for an interval
Short as those between the bell notes.
— Izumi Shikibu

Photographs are precious memories . . . the visual evidence of place and time and relationships . . . ritual talismans for the treasure chest of the heart. — Robert Fulghum, in From Beginning to End

Give sorrow words;
the grief that does not speak
Whispers the o'er-fraught heart
and bids it break.
— William Shakespeare, in Macbeth, Act IV, Scene III

Remembering the past makes hoping for the future possible. — Alan D. Wolfelt, Ph.D., Center for Loss

Grieve not, nor speak of me with tears, but laugh and talk of me as if I were beside you there. — Isla Paschal Richardson

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