Ideas for Paying Tribute on the “Anniversaries”

There are certain times of the year when you will miss your loved one most terribly – an anniversary, a birthday, Christmastime, and other times when those special memories come back. During these times, actively remembering and paying tribute to our loved ones can be a difficult but rewarding experience.

On these days that mean so much to us every year, remembering your loved one’s favorite things can help make the times more bearable.

What were those favorite:

  • Things to do?
  • Places to eat?
  • Movies?
  • Foods?

Can you incorporate those into that special day? Would visiting the cemetery be appropriate? Doing those things that were enjoyable to your loved one will help you remember and pay tribute in comforting ways.

Here are a few examples of beautiful ways that others have remembered:

 

Related Books:

Surviving Holidays, Birthdays, and Anniversaries: A Guide for Grieving During Special Occasions (Grief Steps Guide)


“A caring and compassionate guide to help you through difficult days Good cheer, laughter and happiness are emotions often associated with holidays and special occasions. Yet those experiencing grief feel a vastly different set of emotions. In this caring and compassionate guide, Brook Noel explores the different challenges brought on by holidays, birthdays, anniversaries and other special occasions. She’ll share with you want to expect along with strategies for coping during those difficult days. You’ll also find some ideas for creating new rituals and incorporating your lost loved one into future celebrations.”

 


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Quotes

Life is eternal; and love is immortal; and death is only a horizon; and a horizon is nothing save the limit of our sight. — Rossiter W. Raymond

The heart hath its own memory, like the mind. And in it are enshrined
the precious keepsakes, into which is wrought the giver's loving thought.
— H.W. Longfellow

Perhaps they are not stars in the sky, but rather openings where our loved ones shine down to let us know they are happy. — Eskimo Legend

Remembering the past makes hoping for the future possible. — Alan D. Wolfelt, Ph.D., Center for Loss

I have only slipped away into the next room, I am I and you are you. Whatever we were to each other, that we still are. Call me by my old familiar name. Speak to me in the easy way which you always used.... Play, smile, think of me.... All is well. — Henry Scott Holland

While both joy and sorrow are fleeting, and often intertwined, love has the power to overcome both. And love can last forever. — Deb Fulton, in "The Power of Love" from A Second Chicken Soup for the Woman's Soul

If I am to wear this mourning cloak, let it be made of the fabric of love, woven by the fine thread of memory. — Molly Fumia, in Safe Passage

We do not know the true value of our moments until they have undergone the test of memory. — Georges Duhamel

To live in the hearts we leave behind is not to die. — Thomas Campbell

When a once painful reminder evokes a gentle laugh, when we recognize the joy of the present in an image from the past, we have arrived at an important moment. Those memories are being transformed, unmistakably, into messages of hope. — Molly Fumia, in Safe Passage

What the heart has once known, it shall never forget. — Author unknown

In love longing
I listen to the monk's bell.
I will never forget you
even for an interval
Short as those between the bell notes.
— Izumi Shikibu

Let the joy of your loved one's life begin to take the place of the hurt and anger of the death. — Darcie D. Sims, Grief Inc.

He who has gone, so we but cherish his memory, abides with us, more potent, nay, more present than the living man. — Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

Recall as often as you wish; a happy memory never wears out. — Libbie Fudim

Grieve not, nor speak of me with tears, but laugh and talk of me as if I were beside you there. — Isla Paschal Richardson

In one of the stars, I shall be living.
In one of them, I shall be laughing.
And so it will be as if all the stars were laughing when you look at the sky at night.
— Antoine de Saint-Exupery, from The Little Prince

Give sorrow words;
the grief that does not speak
Whispers the o'er-fraught heart
and bids it break.
— William Shakespeare, in Macbeth, Act IV, Scene III

Memory is a passion no less powerful or pervasive than love. What does it mean to remember? It is to live in more than one world, to prevent the past from fading and to call upon the future to illuminate it. — Elie Wiesel, in All Rivers Run to the Sea: Memoirs

Photographs are precious memories . . . the visual evidence of place and time and relationships . . . ritual talismans for the treasure chest of the heart. — Robert Fulghum, in From Beginning to End

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